10.22.2013

Good or Bad News? Hubby Flies North for the Winter!! ~(^_^)~

      ~Hubby napped with Mocha after sending out 45 resumes last week ~

Wow, life truly is like a box of chocolates (from See's candies)....you never know what you're gonna get! I always liked dark chocolate covered almonds from Mission Viejo mall....but very soon....I think our family will be trying a brand new flavor ~ Philly's dark chocolate covered pretzels!

On 9/22, Autumn appeared at our church lobby, ragged and hungry. She became our newest family member!

Life was not easy the past 6 weeks, as hubby searched high and low for job opportunities. These days, it is almost impossible to get a face-to-face interview. Hubby only had 1 face to face since July! Being home in the last 2.5 months, however, we treasured precious moments spent together cooking, walking, chatting, and hanging out together. Since we were married 15+ years ago, he's never had this long of a break! Waiting is the biggest challenge for him, he said. But I know that this is a defining and refining stage for us all, and we are learning to stick together and lean on God, knowing from experience that He gives us the best, always! Patience is so hard (esp. when hubby's previous company insurance ran out last week), but I look back and see how God carried us in his arms as we crossed this uncertain terrain!

When mocha turned 6 mos 1 day (9/29) Sunday, she laid a GREEN egg!!
 
Abbie baked daddy's surprise 44th bday cake with mocha's egg on 10/2!
The following Sunday, hubby sunny-sided-up Mocha's egg! Orange yolk!

Friends and family blessed us tremendously as we shared our (lack of) job situation. Everyone prayed for us and encouraged us with their own tales of job-hunting and lay-off horror stories. The good news is that eventually, if we keep on with persistence, we WILL find a job! Hang on, and let God take the steering wheel!


~ ~ Would our family go from this "BEFORE" Picture ~ ~

..............to THIS picture?............

~ ~ AFTER ~ ~ Let it Snow... PENNSYLVANIA !! ~ ~

After more than a dozen phone interviews (which ended....right there), hubby got called to go to Johnson and Johnson for a face-to-face, 6 hour interview in Pennsylvania! He was very nervous and excited, all rolled into one, because the project is a revolutionary cord blood stem-cell delivery system with hopes to bring vision back to people with macular degeneration.

George took hubby to tour China town!
 
So hubby jumped on the plane on the plane and off to Philly he went. On his birthday eve, he faced a large panel (of genetic scientists, HR, hiring manager) for 6 hours. Our buddy George took him around Philly and the boys had a wonderful 44th bday dinner for dear hubby!

Yummy Cantonese Restaurant in Philly Chinatown
 


To make a long story short, 3 weeks after his interview, we get a phone call. Coincidentally, the donation truck was coming today so I was cleaning out tons of toys and puzzles from Abbie's toy bins and bookshelves upstairs.






Hubby sounded super excited and gave me a thumbs-up gesture as he happily talked with the man who is to be his future boss. They had given him a verbal offer!! YEAY!  We both had mixed feelings for the rest of the day, as we cleaned out clothes from our closet for donation. Part of us were excited about embarking on a new adventure on the East Coast, where we have never lived before! But the other part already started to miss our loved ones!

Happy July Family Reunion and Welcome Baby Christopher!

We also had a back up plan.... See, hubby had interviewed with Medtronics (a heart valve company he worked for in 1995) yesterday, so we had hoped that maybe this local company would offer him the job.


Ok, kids are hungry after 5 hr basketball championship. Happy Bday Grandpa!

 

It was only 2 miles from our church, and he could join us for lunch after our mom's fellowships on Thursdays! Unfortunately, we got a call this afternoon that this position has been filled by another candidate.

The 3 amigos shower together ~ for the 1st time! (Wake up, Autumn!)

But God is good, as we had prayed for a clear direction, not too many options that we didn't know our way. And it looks like Johnson and Johnson is front and center, and it is where God would take us for the next few years!?



Surprisingly, today the orchid which lives in my front porch....blossomed! I know they live indoors usually, but hubby/Caleb are allergic to plants so it thrived the last 6 months outside! I guess the flower is telling me that it can brave cold outdoor temp. and hot sun/wind, so I will definately be able to do the same....in snowy cold Pennsylvania!



My orchid lived in the outdoors since March....and now she's re-blossoming again!

Our plan would be this: Hubby would go first (maybe early November!), and the kids and I would stay until school ends next June. I'm sure that this big change will be challenging at first, but with God and loved ones who pray for us and encourage us....nothing is too difficult! (^_^)


Thank you ALL for your love and faithful prayers the last 3 months! We are determined to move forward with joy, flexibility and faith. I think I need to get myself a BIG Snowsuit and rightfully a nice pair of UGG boots, as I will be shoveling snow probably during this time next year! I feel "Brrrr...." just thinking about it! The weather today is super sunny and 82 degrees!
 


p.s. I remembered how God told Abraham to trust and obey, though the future ahead is unknown. And He would lead His people to the land flowing with milk and honey (Exodus 3:3).....  This time I really know how Abraham feels, going places simply by faith! I have never been to the East Coast (more than 1 week in my life, see NY pix below!) but I am at peace knowing that God is taking me to the Promised Land....filled with... Cheese and Steak (Philly-style)?!?! HUGS....and like a good soap (Soph) opera, this story WILL be continued, I promise!

4 years ago this weekend, we went to visit our buddies Julie & George in New York!
 
 
Who would've known, this year, hubby will be going to their neighborhood very soon!
 

21 comments:

inkotsai said...

Sophie, I am so happy and sad indeed to hear with good and bad news, we love you and do not want you to leave. But I know, God always has His own plan, we just follow the way. God will lead your way no matter where you are going. Be strong and we are all here praying for you !
So sad........I am going to cry again.......
Inko

Anonymous said...

Wow, how very exciting!!! You will love that part of the country. It's really very beautiful and super fun. So much to see and do! Yes, it gets cold but cold weather clothes are awesome. Snow is pure joy. Shoveling it isn't too bad. It's the slush and ice that stinks. The malls are like a compound of retail awesomeness. 😜. There are so many interesting places to see that you just don't have here. The museums, parks, amusement parks, charming towns, big cities - real cities, the culture is simply wonderful. We will visit you on our trips back east. And with all of that being said, with enormous sadness...I will miss you SO much!!!

S.B.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for sharing Sophie. Welcome to .....,not Seattle ,but somewhere that is kinda on the cold side like where we live also.


I was so touched by the journey of Mark's job hunting and your family's submission taking it easy by trusting
that God will lead and provide.


The transition of the family's moving from south to north, hubby's new job and living alone for the first six to seven months will be smooth and full of miracles!


Keeping you in our prayer! Praise God. Amen!

Amy S.

Sis said...

Thanks for the update. Glad we still have some time to say Good-bye. Who knows? Maybe you'll be moving back within a couple years if Mark finds another great job in California!

We will miss you.

Debbie

Anonymous said...

Dear Sophie:


This is what I am afraid of. I hope God provide Mark a job near by, so we will not "lose" you!


I know Johnson & Johnson is a good reputation company, this is a great opportunity for Mark. May God grant Mark an official offer letter soon, or even better, offer Mark another employment opportunity in Irvine.


Amy L.

Anonymous said...

Dear Soph,



It is always uplifting and encouraging to read your life stories no matter what circumstances you are in!



Congratulations to Mark on getting a job offer from the great company, Johnson and Johnson! Even though we will miss him and your family dearly in the near future, you are right that 萬事都互相效應,叫愛神的人得益處. You are people of great faith, love, and hope. We are blessed to have your guys as good friends in Christ. No matter where you go, I am sure God will continue to guide your family’s ways to the future and bless you abundantly.



Love,

Maggie

Anonymous said...

Wow! That's cool! Thanks for the update, Sophie. May God richly bless you and your family! :)

Michael

Anonymous said...

Hey Sophie,
Sorry to hear about Mark's work situation. But that's awesome that he found an opportunity out in Philly.


So my fiancé actually works in the Philly area. So maybe in the future if I head out there, I might be able to meet up with you guys =) We still haven't figured out where we will live once we get married but for now, we are staying put.


Take care!

Cousin Scott

Anonymous said...

Wow, wow, and more wow. Well, I am so glad that he landed a great job, but will miss you so! I am glad you are sticking it out until next June with the kids, so we just HAVE to get some tennis in together in the coming months, OK?

May God continue to bless you with new adventures IN PEACE as you are separated from mark in the coming months -- not easy. I am here for you, however I can, to help you out during that time.

XO - Suzanne

Anonymous said...

Hi, Sophie
妳的兩個半月比別人的兩年還精彩,妳的生活真是多彩多姿。就如同妳所說,上帝已爲你們安排一條最好的路, 祝福你們, Mark不在的這段時間如果需要幫忙,千萬別客氣噢!

Jennifer W.

Anonymous said...

Dear Sophie,
Congrats to you and Mark! It is amazing that Mark finds job that quick at current economic conditions . I have friends got layoff for more than 6 months and still looking for a job!
May God keeps open His ways to your family!
In the future, we will have the excuse to visit Pennsylvania :)
Love,
Jennifer sis

Anonymous said...

Dear sister,


It's a complex feeling as I see this news...
Anyway, Praise the Lord for His faithfulness and steadfast love for His children!!
Keeping relying on Him and He will certainly guide your family with His Mighty hands!!
Hallelujah!!
If you need any help, please do let us know!!

Love,
Anita

Priscilla sisters said...

Cindy: Sophie, welcome to the keystone state! It's 30 degrees outside now.

Inko: May God answered all our prayers ! Btw, I am coming over east side for some good reason now!

Jane:I am really sorry that you are moving to east coast. May God bless your family.

Anonymous said...

We love you Sophie! It's hard to imagine you leavine! I'm so glad we have you for this year though!

Joyce

Anonymous said...

Dear Sophie,


Praise The Lord! I'm certain that this is all a part of God's amazing plan for your family.

I'm very happy for you but yet sad to see you leave.


I used to live in NJ for over a year when I first married Justin. Other than the COLD weather, I actually think NJ is a very nice place to reside. You will be able to take the kids to MANY states in just one weekend.


Just always remember that you have us (the 娘家) to come back to when you need to get some sunshines😉.


I'm also excited about the journey God is about to take you and the family to. I know you and Mark (and the two amazing kids) will be doing even greater things for God over in the East Coast!


Will continue to pray for you all!


Hugs,
Caroline

Anonymous said...

Wow! You are embarking on a great adventure! I am so happy to hear about the wonderful opportunity your husband has been given. It's amazing to watch things work out....the road you are meant to follow certainly looks clear. I know the next few months when you will be bicoastal will be hard ( if I read correctly, you are staying with the kids until June), it will all be O.K. Your faith and positive outlook at a time of uncertainty is inspirational. What a wonderful gift for your children... watching Mom and Dad work through hard times leaning on their faith. They will be able to handle anything that comes their way by following that model.

Congratulations!
Mrs. Tracey Brooks

Anonymous said...

Hi, Sophie,


Welcome to Pennsylvania! It will take a while for you guys to adjust to the new city especially the weather but I'm sure you will start enjoying the four seasons. I hear there is a lot to do in Philly plus you guys will be pretty close to NYC.

Love,
Ingrid

Anonymous said...

wow, this is great news! thanks for sharing how you see God's hand over the whole situation, sophie. i will be praying hard for you two, and for caleb & abbie as they adjust to their new life. it's really hard to move, lose friends, and make new friends. maybe we can visit you! :) do you know what school district caleb and abbie will be in?

Eunice H.

Anonymous said...

Congratulations Soph - get some warm clothes! :)


James H.

Anonymous said...

I am sooooooooo excited for you!!! I am even a little jealous :) Your new adventure sounds fabulous. Winters and beautiful fall seasons are some of my favorites! Enjoy and please keep in touch! I will keep you all in my prayers! xoxoxo

B. Eusey

Anonymous said...

Soph,

when are you guys leaving, we should get together again for a farewell party or something.
at least. I just worry if Kenneth can accept the fact without crying.

James